I’ve come to the conclusion that, on certain days, parenting is a little like one, long waitressing shift.
Except for the fact that you don’t get paid and the only ‘tips’ on offer are stroppy about-to-start-school ones along the lines of: ‘Mummy, I need more blueberries,’ and ‘You need to buy more chocolate biscuits.’
I know – I can’t believe it took me this look to make the connection either.
Maybe it’s something about turning four, but Mini-me’s diva demands are definitely on the rise. And considering that her favourite ‘hobbies’ include picnics (garden, park and woodland based naturally), frequenting cafes and seeing how many snacks she can wheedle out of relatives and close friends, I’m starting to feel like a plate balancer as well as spinner.
I suppose I shouldn’t complain, after all ‘waitressing’ these days keeps me constantly on my toes and thus provides at least a grudging form of exercise, and I don’t have to wear short skirts like I did ‘back in the day.’
And actually Mini-me requesting that I pause the TV so she can take a quick ‘snack break’ has been the cause of much hilarity. (I know, I need to get out more to somewhere without swings and buggies.)
But let’s face it, fetching, carrying, raising voice when perfectly capable offspring is just being lazy, and wiping up spills with one foot whilst clearing dirty plates with hands is bloody knackering.
I have fairly painful memories of my pre-children waitressing ‘career’ – which actually constituted the revenue source of one university summer.
I was a pretty awful ‘restaurant attendant’ as I recall. I could only carry two plates at a time, would forget to put some meals through the till and then blame the chefs for their lateness and objected to having to plaster on a huge smile when I was quite often massively hungover.
Also I wasn’t shagging one of the managers which, if I remember correctly, was the only way to bag yourself decent tips!
Now of course I can cater to numerous demands in minutes and am brilliant at anticipating the customers’ needs.
Time for your bottle of milk sir? Here’s one I microwaved earlier.
More carrot sticks madam? Of course, here are some extra ones I prepared just in case.
You’d like a third custard pot of the day you say? You must be joking!
At least I’m not alone in this business of order taking and continual washing up.
One of my best friends now enjoys the delights of her child shouting ‘rubbish!’ when he’s finished consuming something on an outing and needs the remains disposing of.
Another has crisp packets thrown at her when her kids have finished munching. Obviously they are incapable of putting them in the bin themselves you understand.
Personally I’m looking forward to seeing what Mini-me tries to get away with at school mealtimes.
I’ll bet we’re the only parents called in because their child wishes to dine atop a blanket in the playground with her teddy bears.
And due to concerns over worrying custard pot addiction…